— Seattle WA
One rainy night in 2014, a homeless man, an outreach worker and a multimillionaire sat on a patch of grass beside a church in Seattle’s Capitol Hill neighborhood.
The homeless man told his story, of losing his way and losing everything. How did he end up here?
The outreach worker — a former meth addict who had gotten off the streets just the year before — listened and nodded. And Robert Herjavec, who had built a $200 million fortune in cybersecurity, and a star on the reality show “Shark Tank,” burst into tears.
“It was hard,” Herjavec remembered of that night five years ago. “This person just didn’t want to go on any more. It amazes me how little some people have in life and how void of love and humanity there can be in the world.” On Wednesday, Herjavec returned to the Union Gospel Mission (UGM), a shelter in Pioneer Square, to reconnect with the place that took in “a broken man,” and put him to work for two weeks, serving a community that he knew little about. It opened his eyes to the troubles of others — and the larger problem of homelessness.
On his way into Seattle for business meetings, Herjavec immediately noticed the increase in homeless encampments along the freeway and city streets.
“Is the problem worse, or am I more aware of it?” he asked a group of UGM staffers gathered in a conference room. “Once you become aware, you can’t not see the problem. I’m so cognizant.”
The problem is indeed worse than it was when Herjavec was here, UGM President Scott Chin told him. The last annual one-night count of homelessness found more than 12,000 people living on the street — a 4 percent increase.
“Come on,” Herjavec said. “Wow.”
The businessman and reality-TV star first connected with the UGM on the recommendation of his Toronto-based pastor, John McAvey, who was counseling Herjavec after he and his wife of 24 years had separated. (McAvey was friends with former UGM president Jeff Lilley). “I needed to get in touch with my humanity and self-worth.” Herjavec recalled. “I had a lot of noise in my life and I couldn’t see straight. I think (McAvey) sent me to connect with other human beings.
“That’s the amazing thing,” he said of the mission’s work. “It really strips away anything that isn’t human.” Herjavec worked in the kitchen, and one night was assigned to the front desk. That’s when he met Richard McAdams, a former meth addict who had completed the UGM’s recovery program the year before, and was interning as an outreach coordinator.
Herjavec asked McAdams what he did. Search and
rescue, McAdams told him. He went out every night, offering help to those living on the streets, under bridges, in RVs and in encampments.
“I’d be interested in doing that,” Herjavec responded.
The two men ventured out that night, and eventually ended up sitting on the grass, in the rain, talking to a man in need.
“It changed his whole life,” McAdams, 50, said of Herjavec. “We sat there and talked and Robert listened to his story and he broke down in tears. It moved him. He got to see people for who they are.”
The experience also bonded the two men. Herjavec and McAdams stay in close touch, and when Herjavec married his “Dancing with the Stars” partner Kym Johnson in a sumptuous wedding at the Four Seasons in Beverly Hills, McAdams was there. Indeed, six months after he left Seattle, Herjavec was cast on “Dancing with the Stars,” and partnered with Kym Johnson. They were married in 2016 and now have 10-month-old twins.
“When I came here I was just who I really am,” he said. “And so I’ve always gone back to this place. It gives you a certain amount of empathy. I’m a very understanding human being now.
“And I probably wasn’t back then.”
— This story was written by Nicole Brodeur at
The Seattle Times
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